Right, it's the sum that makes us. You can always create new memories too, that's what living is about. Granted, it's much harder to do that in such a unpleasant setting, and it's unreasonable to ask anyone to not feel afraid or nervous. But life goes on, and personally, I don't want to let this game control us any more than it already has.

[she tilts her head at that though, sobering up a little.]

Although, "again"... Do you remember how you got over it, last time? [not the memory itself, but how the loss was coped and overcame. it's a different angle, but worth trying, maybe!]